Resolving disputes the adult way

If you were a child you would resolve a dispute with a fist fight or a role in the sand on the play ground. A young adult would scream, call each other names and then apologize. Now adults on the other hand prefer to scream, have heated debates, say horribly mean things, walk away and then behave like nothing happened. 


Time and again you see this being repeated. If adults resolved issues the same way kids do there would not be pent up resentment and harboring grudges over life. No thats not the way you do it, you look at each other in the eye the next day and behave all is ok in the world when it is not. Some day it all boils in a cauldron and spills out with a lot more venom then ever before. 


Wish adults would just fight it out, shake hands and then walk away happy.