How many times ??

Was asked a number of questions this weekend by one of my classmates and my answer was zero. Makes me wonder whats wrong with me. The questions were, how many times have you hooked up with someone since you landed here and how many times have you been hit on. The first one is zero and the second one is maybe one or two, actually don't really know. He looked really perturbed with my answers like there was something wrong with me. I wonder if there is something wrong with me. When I was in Chicago and went out drinking, got hit on all the time in the bars. Once I have landed at HBS, for some reason have not had a lot of instances. If I have had, I have just not noticed. Think thats a problem because if I do not read the signs then I am never going to get anywhere with any of the guys so my number is always going to be zero. 


Or maybe its not me reading the signs wrong but me just trying to ignore them altogether. Every time a nice guy tries to talk to me, my defenses are at the highest level. Not sure why but I think at some level I am still petrified that I might fall in love again and let someone walk all over me. Isn't that a scary thought so try and closet it all and live like a hermit, thats my solution. So the how many times might be zero for sometime till I find a persuasive nice guy who just does not want to get into my pants.