Girls..& their need to say it all
I don't know what is it with girls and their need to share every single detail of their lives with whoever they are close to.I am a girl and I talk but I haven't reached that stage where I share every single thought with someone else or maybe I just don't know.
It's not that I have any problem with these girls who tell their boyfriends or husbands everything.It's just that when they are telling these partners every single thought, they are also sharing small little details from other people's lives which are sometimes just not meant to be shared. When girlfriends or sisters talk, these are supposed to be secrets between them but when these girls go home, they open their mouth and vomit every single bit of the conversation. This is what I have a problem with because no one gave them the right to discuss someone else's life. I have done it in parts sometimes with some boys I was close with but never discussed intimate details about someone else's life with them.I just feel I had no right to do that because they did not give me permission to do so.Can't say I don't do it at all,that's wrong because there have been times when I say something and regret it for days but then I have not done it that often.
It's not that I have any problem with these girls who tell their boyfriends or husbands everything.It's just that when they are telling these partners every single thought, they are also sharing small little details from other people's lives which are sometimes just not meant to be shared. When girlfriends or sisters talk, these are supposed to be secrets between them but when these girls go home, they open their mouth and vomit every single bit of the conversation. This is what I have a problem with because no one gave them the right to discuss someone else's life. I have done it in parts sometimes with some boys I was close with but never discussed intimate details about someone else's life with them.I just feel I had no right to do that because they did not give me permission to do so.Can't say I don't do it at all,that's wrong because there have been times when I say something and regret it for days but then I have not done it that often.
Well you might ask why I am ranting, coz I don't like people in my life sharing all my life details with their other halves. I guess I just have to stop telling them every aspect of my life because if they can't shut up I will have to. It just sucks because I am a girl and I need to say it all too.
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